Anupama ojha

🫰 This generation's love story🤞 Tragically We live in a world where love is left to wait at the last table of a coffee shop where only casual connections and relationships are in demand where people come and willingly serve themselves with the same heartbreak and pain because it's 'casual and 'cool'. Emotions and feelings lie in the corner, unnoticed, neglected and laughed at, because old-school romance is probably not trendy in this shallow and superficial world, we've assembled for ourselves.  It's miserable and sad, isn't it? That we find it easier to disappear rather than face what's in front of us. We use words like "break" and "space" anticipating that everything would just magically work out after that time, and even if it doesn't, it's fine because that's how our era defines love. Nowadays, Love is not about staying and facing difficulties together for them. It's about finding a new face every time they g...

🫶 We came here for? 🫶 Well like always we don't invariably get what we desired. But Not everything you lose is a loss. Some things are freedom. Some things are a second possibility. Some things are a miracle in disguise. Some things are a detachment long-needed, a clarity brought to blurry eyes. Some things are an intervention. Some things are the unexpected answer to a long-chanted prayer. Some things are healing. Some things are becoming. Some things are planned long before you ever came to be.  Some things are devastation, but others are a kind of vital guidance, the kind of course correction you did not even know you needed it. The kind you did not even realize you were asking for all along. There is a moment for sadness and a time to grieve. There is a time to feel and a term to reflect. A moment to seek wisdom and a point to learn. But, Then there is a time to simply go on. And going on is what all of us will have to do, not just once, but at many points in our lives. Becau...

💥💥WHO KNOWS AND WHAT IF'S!💥💥 Hey loves you worry alot, Consider this...❤ What if it turns out better than you imagine? What if it is easier than you think it will be? What if it goes faster than you think it might? What if it is already fated? What if it is designed for you, and only you? Who knows if nobody else can take your destiny from you? Who knows if it is already on its way? What if you are so busy trying to measure everything you might lose, you're forgetting all that you do not yet know you will gain? What if this part of your story is not about how quickly you can arrive at the destination, but how you decide what version of you will show up for your dreams? What if your job is to work on becoming the type of person you most want to be. And then finding the faith that the things you are most meant for, the things you reach for, will inevitably reach back to you in time? How differently would you see the answers you don't have, the unknown you're facing? H...

👣A reminder: A different path.👣 Just a reminder:  Here for this generation, You get to do things differently than your family of origin. Something that your soul would love to go for. Just because you come from a family where things were done a particular way. doesn't mean you have to do things in the exact same way. It's not necessary that Just because people in your family tend to "be" a certain way doesn't mean you have to adopt the same way of being. You get to choose a different way of doing and being. With these things, practice makes more practice and practice will create shifts. Beautiful shifts. Be the best version of you and for you. You get to choose, what resonates and aligns with you, and practice more of that.  And. Simultaneously You get to slowly unlearn and release what doesn't. We are here to evolve. And that means we want to evolve generationally as well. Well In some ways, we know more now than those who came before us. We can be grateful...

🤍🌃 IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT 🌃🤍 Hello there everyone, it's been a long time since I've written something.. and today idk from where I got this courage to write again, you know, I used to think "Tell them you love them" is the worst advice ever. But I've to come to realise that it's not true. The worst advice is to tell someone "pack your bags and leave". Clearly this person has no clue about starting all over. It seems fancy in the movies and books - you get a house by the beach, look over the sunset and reflect on everything, and despise the ones who made your life hell. The truth isn't even close. If you are desi, your first struggle will be finding a place, And a landlord who won't be a money-hungry a-hole and biased towards bachelors.  Good luck finding that. And when you have compromised and settled for less, Moving in will be the next step.  You will have to get a gas connection so you can survive on maggi.  You will also need to cal...

💟💟💟💟 HOPE 💟💟💟💟  So the truth is this, One day you will wake up and the choices you make will not be ones out of pain but rather one that reflects a heart that has healed and time is the only thing that will get you to that place.  I know it's frustrating and difficult and it feels like you're moving in slow motion to get to that place. But if anything took a long time to get over that just means it was real. My hope is with enough time you'll heal. You'll learn to love again and in doing so the pain you feel will make sense.  My hope is you get the closure you deserve even if that's simply closure within yourself and you learn to do what you have to, to move forward.  My hope is you realize that what you're feeling right now although it seems all consuming it will pass and you'll become stronger and better for it.  Sometimes temporary people take up permanent places within our heart and that is okay to take them with us. If we were required to forget...

🌺 This is your journey,  yours and yours alone 🌺 Life is all about how we are living. And livin' without what you really desire is a regret, and livin' with a regret hurts sooner or later it does.  So, I just wanna convey that, There is still time to tell that special person that you love them. That at some point over the last few months, they made your days a little brighter, they helped heal the hurt others left behind-they sank into your heart and made a home there.  You can still tell them that in the midst of impossible circumstances, they became your favorite thing. There is still time to change your ideas about the future. It is okay if you're not where you thought you'd be today - you have many tomorrows ahead of you.  Life is not linear, and as you grow you will sometimes outgrow what you once wanted.  You are allowed to course correct, you are allowed to take your path in a different direction.  This is your journey, yours and yours alone. There...

❣️I miss my younger self.❣️ So, Like everyone else's, I want to return to my childhood days, too. When my biggest worry was not getting enough friendship bands. When I was innocent and found happiness in the little things. The unwavering faith I had on people, I wish I could get that back now. It had its pros and cons but whatever I had inside me was pure. If only my younger self had a better understanding of people, she would have suffered less. I had this resilient spirit and was uncomplaining to all the people who messed with my head. I loved them stupidly, even when they inflicted pain on my heart, maybe, I was a coward, or perhaps, naive? I never spoke up. I used to be a girl whose smile never faded from her lips, an over enthusiastic person, It was the bullying and ridiculing by some people which took the smile away from my face permanently. My younger self let them impact me, but I suppose, you learn some things only later in life, I wish I felt proud of myself just the way ...

💫""MAKING YOURSELF A PRIORITY""💫 Making Yourself a Priority is important. It's okay if your heart has changed a bit along with the plans you thought were something written in concrete to turn to stone. It's okay if you're suddenly realizing, this thing, this person, this opportunity isn't the one for me anymore. It's okay if you feel like you might let someone down or disappoint them in the next choice you make because now it's gotta be one for you. Plans change, hearts stop beating for certain things then get captivated by something or someone else. And trying to navigate and understand the confusion and complexity of your feelings sometimes force you to stay in places you've outgrown. We stay in places not meant for us anymore because it's familiar or we stay fearing letting someone down and hurting them. But we only end up hurt ourselves in the process of trying to please everyone. When you outgrown something or someone even that...