🫶we came here for?🫶 - Anupama Ojha

🫶We came here for?🫶

Well like always we don't invariably get what we desired. But Not everything you lose is a loss. Some things are freedom.

Some things are a second possibility. Some things are a miracle in disguise. Some things are a detachment long-needed, a clarity brought to blurry eyes. Some things are an intervention. Some things are the unexpected answer to a long-chanted prayer. Some things are healing. Some things are becoming. Some things are planned long before you ever came to be. 

Some things are devastation, but others are a kind of vital guidance, the kind of course correction you did not even know you needed it. The kind you did not even realize you were asking for all along.

There is a moment for sadness and a time to grieve. There is a time to feel and a term to reflect. A moment to seek wisdom and a point to learn.

But, Then there is a time to simply go on.

And going on is what all of us will have to do, not just once, but at many points in our lives. Because the truth about loss is that it is not something that happens when we fail, but something that happens as we grow. It is as natural as the changing of seasons. It can be as effortless as an exhale, or as painstaking as a death to the selves we used to be.

If we do not learn how to let go, we do not ever learn how to live. We did not come here to stand still. To hold within our hearts and heads the details of everything we have ever known and loved and wanted and felt and wondered about.

We came here to experience, we came here to grow.

We came here to learn that nothing presses us to release it unless something new is imminently waiting to arrive. So don't get afraid of losses, it's not always what you want but it's always what you actually needs. Just accept, learn and grow.

By- Anupama Ojha