It will all be worth it. 🤍🌃 By _ Anupama ojha


🤍🌃 IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT 🌃🤍


Hello there everyone, it's been a long time since I've written something.. and today idk from where I got this courage to write again, you know,
I used to think "Tell them you love them" is the worst advice ever. But I've to come to realise that it's not true.

The worst advice is to tell someone "pack your bags and leave".

Clearly this person has no clue about starting all over. It seems fancy in the movies and books - you get a house by the beach, look over the sunset and reflect on everything, and despise the ones who made your life hell.

The truth isn't even close. If you are desi, your first struggle will be finding a place,
And a landlord who won't be a money-hungry a-hole and biased towards bachelors. 

Good luck finding that.

And when you have compromised and settled for less, Moving in will be the next step. 
You will have to get a gas connection so you can survive on maggi. 
You will also need to call a plumber because at least one drain will be clogged.

After that comes the shopping - you will need to buy plates, glasses, and mugs. 

Say hello to more expenses.

Also, remember how your parents used to spend hours searching for that perfect bed sheet or the right crockery set? 
Well, you'll start relating to that.

Once you have it all in place, you'll need to find a cook who will make pulao and call it biryani, or you'll have to turn to YouTube because you can't just survive on maggi and water (Or can you?)

When all that is done, you'll start worrying about the bills.

But once you do get out, it'll all be different. You will learn to live in a world that's not blanketed by the comfort of your parents. You will learn to survive, and I swear, it will be worth it.

You'll find yourself sitting in the balcony of your tiny apartment, writing stories and reading books, after a long day at work. But it will all be worth it.

In another news, I've to make a confession. I hope you all take it too kindly and let me retire peacefully. 

The truth is that- I am Batman. :>


By _ Anupama ojha 

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