Anupama ojha

🤍🌃 IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT 🌃🤍 Hello there everyone, it's been a long time since I've written something.. and today idk from where I got this courage to write again, you know, I used to think "Tell them you love them" is the worst advice ever. But I've to come to realise that it's not true. The worst advice is to tell someone "pack your bags and leave". Clearly this person has no clue about starting all over. It seems fancy in the movies and books - you get a house by the beach, look over the sunset and reflect on everything, and despise the ones who made your life hell. The truth isn't even close. If you are desi, your first struggle will be finding a place, And a landlord who won't be a money-hungry a-hole and biased towards bachelors.  Good luck finding that. And when you have compromised and settled for less, Moving in will be the next step.  You will have to get a gas connection so you can survive on maggi.  You will also need to cal...

💟💟💟💟 HOPE 💟💟💟💟  So the truth is this, One day you will wake up and the choices you make will not be ones out of pain but rather one that reflects a heart that has healed and time is the only thing that will get you to that place.  I know it's frustrating and difficult and it feels like you're moving in slow motion to get to that place. But if anything took a long time to get over that just means it was real. My hope is with enough time you'll heal. You'll learn to love again and in doing so the pain you feel will make sense.  My hope is you get the closure you deserve even if that's simply closure within yourself and you learn to do what you have to, to move forward.  My hope is you realize that what you're feeling right now although it seems all consuming it will pass and you'll become stronger and better for it.  Sometimes temporary people take up permanent places within our heart and that is okay to take them with us. If we were required to forget...

🌺 This is your journey,  yours and yours alone 🌺 Life is all about how we are living. And livin' without what you really desire is a regret, and livin' with a regret hurts sooner or later it does.  So, I just wanna convey that, There is still time to tell that special person that you love them. That at some point over the last few months, they made your days a little brighter, they helped heal the hurt others left behind-they sank into your heart and made a home there.  You can still tell them that in the midst of impossible circumstances, they became your favorite thing. There is still time to change your ideas about the future. It is okay if you're not where you thought you'd be today - you have many tomorrows ahead of you.  Life is not linear, and as you grow you will sometimes outgrow what you once wanted.  You are allowed to course correct, you are allowed to take your path in a different direction.  This is your journey, yours and yours alone. There...

❣️I miss my younger self.❣️ So, Like everyone else's, I want to return to my childhood days, too. When my biggest worry was not getting enough friendship bands. When I was innocent and found happiness in the little things. The unwavering faith I had on people, I wish I could get that back now. It had its pros and cons but whatever I had inside me was pure. If only my younger self had a better understanding of people, she would have suffered less. I had this resilient spirit and was uncomplaining to all the people who messed with my head. I loved them stupidly, even when they inflicted pain on my heart, maybe, I was a coward, or perhaps, naive? I never spoke up. I used to be a girl whose smile never faded from her lips, an over enthusiastic person, It was the bullying and ridiculing by some people which took the smile away from my face permanently. My younger self let them impact me, but I suppose, you learn some things only later in life, I wish I felt proud of myself just the way ...

💫""MAKING YOURSELF A PRIORITY""💫 Making Yourself a Priority is important. It's okay if your heart has changed a bit along with the plans you thought were something written in concrete to turn to stone. It's okay if you're suddenly realizing, this thing, this person, this opportunity isn't the one for me anymore. It's okay if you feel like you might let someone down or disappoint them in the next choice you make because now it's gotta be one for you. Plans change, hearts stop beating for certain things then get captivated by something or someone else. And trying to navigate and understand the confusion and complexity of your feelings sometimes force you to stay in places you've outgrown. We stay in places not meant for us anymore because it's familiar or we stay fearing letting someone down and hurting them. But we only end up hurt ourselves in the process of trying to please everyone. When you outgrown something or someone even that...

🎭""BLESSINGS IN DISGUISE""🎭 So, here I'm gonna tell you about the reality of how God really wanna help and bless us. How far it takes us to understand what really matters and what don't. And how much FATE means. ... First thing first, Don't be surprised if God removes one person after the other when you pray for healing. Don't be surprised when truths about the people around you are suddenly revealed in the most random ways. Don't be surprised when people change on you or disappoint you or let you down because that means that God heard you and he's answering your prayers. That means God is now showing you the signs that you've been asking for and giving you the answers you need. ... Don't be surprised when God changes your heart, when you wake up one day and you don't feel the same way about someone anymore or your intuition kicks in and somehow you stop trusting certain people. Don't be surprised when you don't understa...

God says NO!!🙏 Well you see At times God says NO because he knows that the things your heart desires could EVENTUALLY BREAK YOU. The people you deeply need could be the ones who will LET YOU DOWN in every possible way. The ones who will change the way you think about people or about love or the ones who will close your heart off and make you QUESTION YOURSELF. Sometimes God says NO because he wants to teach you the importance of PATIENCE. Of learning how to value things that others take for granted or learning how to stand on your own feet, not to take anyone's shit ,not let anyone disrespect you, so you can take care of others when they fall or take care of yourself when the people you need are no longer around you. Sometimes God says NO because he knows that if he says yes, you won't grow up with the same WISDOM, STRENGTH, PERSEVERANCE and RESILIENCE you have today. You won't be the best version of yourself if you didn't have things in your life that forced you to fa...

"I'd choose you, over and over again" Once-in-a-lifetime you have to fall in love, what I meant by love is the Fortunate and the unconditional love. Once you've found the right one for yourself, you won't feel the same way for anyone else. You'll willingly spend a lifetime with them, no questions asked. To be in love is like voluntarily drinking a potion, not knowing if it'll kill you slowly or if it'll bring you happiness - but your risk it anyway. in love, you choose to put yourself through things with no certainty of a forever, but when you are truly in love, you do all of it anyway. You take a road not knowing if the road will lead to someplace beautiful or if it will lead to somewhere shady, you simply smile, and trust the journey and your companion. There is not many things to love, but when you do you love too much you wake up every day and remind yourself why you began in the very first place, because that's what you do in love - you choose...