Just like love, heartbreaks don't last.😊 - by Anupama ojha


""Just like love, heartbreaks don't last.""💛


To the boy, I don't hate,🙂

As I think nostalgic to write this letter, my first thoughts are - I hope you're doing well. I hope you're happy in your life. I mean it. I do.

It's been three - four years since the break-up, eh? It's been a ride of a lifetime. If I look back in time, I can remember all the things we did together and to each other.

From that phase of babu-shona', we've come a long way. I'm a content writer ,a councellor and a successful corporate person now.
And you're in a different part of the world, doing what you've always wanted to do.

I could start our story from the day when we first met in that dark road way near that krishna temple.,. We were 18. Young and foolishly in love. We believed that you and I are going to be each other's happy ending that we will be together forever.

You know, people make plans. They see life -  A house, two kids, a caring husband, and a happily-ever-after. And then, Before you can get that life with your first love, Life happens.

It's been so many years since we broke up. I remember the first two years where I resented you. The two years I spent being miserable - drowning in alcohol and everything harmful. No one knows of it, but now the world will.

The past one-two years have been better. I have grown up. I don't see love as a fundamental feeling, but as an emotion that puts you in a happier state. It took me time, but I got there.

I'm sure the heartbreak was just terrible for you, too. I empathise with you. I understand all my shortcomings in that relationship, and I hope you saw yours, too.

I'm romantically interested in my life only now. Like genuinely focused and interested. And I think I'll court myself in and see if it can work out.

On some days, I'm very happy. On some, I feel okay. You know, you were a wonderful friend. You taught me how to love before you broke my heart. I may have despised you in the past, but after these past few years, I've learnt to be happy for you, too. I now know just like love, heartbreaks don't last.

Take care
With love,
The girl you once loved.❤️
- by Anupama ojha

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